by: Doug Brackbill
In my original article which you will find below in BOLD type, I discussed the issue of divorce and remarriage. I have decided to update this issue, with the new additions in ITALICS.
Matthew 12:31-32 ESV Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven people, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Matthew 12:31 NASB "Therefore I say to you, any sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven people, but blasphemy against the Spirit shall not be forgiven.
According to the test above, there is only one sin which is unforgivable, which is the sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. And this sin was, according to Johnson in the Peoples New Testament: “It was ascribing Christ's works to demoniac influence. These works were wrought by the power of the Spirit." But I submit to you than there is a new "unforgivable" sin within the Lord's Church, and this level of "unforgivableness" has been bestowed by men, not God. That is the sin of Divorce and Remarriage.
Let's re-examine the definition of the unforgivable sin. What is the unforgivable sin? According to the International Standard Bible Encyclopedia; In the original Greek blasphemia meant primarily "defamation" or "evil speaking" in general; "a word of evil omen," hence, "impious, and irreverent speech against God." The general idea is that to attribute to an evil source acts which are clearly those of the Holy Spirit, to call good evil, is blasphemy against the Spirit, and sin that will not be pardoned. "A distinction is made between Christ's other acts and those which manifestly reveal the Holy Spirit in Him, and between slander directed against Him personally as He appears in His ordinary acts, and that which is aimed at those acts in which the Spirit is manifest". The Apostle John further clarifies the idea of an "unforgivable sin" in 1 John 5:16 when he speaks of the "sin leading to death". Therefore we must ask; Is divorce and remarriage a "sin leading to death"?
Does God forgive adultery? The answer is yes! Consider David, someone God calls "a man after My own heart" (1 Sam. 13:14). We'd expect that a person with this qualification would surely "walk the straight and narrow." But even this righteous king fell short. Not only did he commit adultery with Bathsheba; to cover up his sin, he also sent her husband to the front lines so he'd die in battle (2 Sam. 11:15). Doesn't it seem amazing that the Lord would refer to him as a man "who kept My commandments and who followed Me with all his heart, to do only that which was right in My sight" (1 Kings 14:8)? Yet because David repented (Ps. 51), God forgave him and regarded him as pure.
God forgave David of adultery and murder, and allowed David to remain married to Bathsheba. Some might say that once Uriah was murdered, that made Bathsheba a widow and free to marry David. I pray that we do not have anyone that would say David's act of murder was less a sin than a civil divorce today. This is the only difference in David and Bathsheba and a modern remarried couple; the modern couple did not commit a murder.
God even blessed this union with a child we know as Solomon, who grew to be the wisest man ever known. God did not demand that David leave Bathsheba, or remain unmarried as some within our Brotherhood demand of divorced members.
Make no mistake, I hold to the Scriptures that divorce is and always will be a sin, and God has put His seal of approval on the institution of marriage from the Creation. But is divorce, and especially remarriage, the unforgivable sin that some elderships and congregations have elevated it to?
Scripture assures us that we are forgiven when we confess sin (1 John 1:9). Jesus bought our pardon with His death, and once we accept His free gift, God sees us as righteous. Of course, we'll continue to wrestle with sin throughout life. Even the apostle Paul documented his struggle against doing wrong: "For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want" (Rom. 7:19).
Let us look at what the Scriptures say about sin. In Isaiah 43:25 "I, I am he who blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and I will not remember your sins." God speaking through Isaiah tell His people that He will not remember their sins.And also in Jeremiah 31:31-34 "Behold, the days are coming, declares the LORD, when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and the house of Judah, not like the covenant that I made with their fathers on the day when I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt, my covenant that they broke, though I was their husband, declares the LORD. But this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, declares the LORD: I will put my law within them, and I will write it on their hearts. And I will be their God, and they shall be my people. And no longer shall each one teach his neighbor and each his brother, saying, 'Know the LORD,' for they shall all know me, from the least of them to the greatest, declares the LORD. For I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more."And bringing this Promise forward into the New Testament church, the Hebrew writer quotes from this very passage from Jeremiah in Hebrews 8:8-13 For he finds fault with them when he says: "Behold, the days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will establish a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah, not like the covenant that I made with their fathers on the day when I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt. For they did not continue in my covenant, and so I showed no concern for them, declares the Lord. For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, declares the Lord: I will put my laws into their minds, and write them on their hearts, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. And they shall not teach, each one his neighbor and each one his brother, saying, 'Know the Lord,' for they shall all know me, from the least of them to the greatest. For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more." In speaking of a new covenant, he makes the first one obsolete. And what is becoming obsolete and growing old is ready to vanish away."
So why then are divorced Christians treated as they are within the Lord's church? I wish I had an answer. I can find NO Scriptural reason for this. I am a divorced Gospel Preacher. My first wife (not a member of the Lord's church, nor was I at that time) divorced me even though I was the innocent party, but God gave me two wonderful children from that relationship.Because God gave me the wonderful gift of my wife today, we met, I fell in love with her and our two sons, married, and have a wonderful daughter together (yes, that makes five children, my true gift from God. Biology gave me two children, but He decided I needed three more.); some within the brotherhood believe that has PERMANENTLY disqualified me from ever teaching or preaching at any congregation. To these people all I can respond with is the same thing I respond to anyone with, and that is God's Holy Word's from the text:Matthew 6:14-15 ESV For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you,but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. (this is a part of the Lord's prayer);Luke 17:3-4 ESV Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, 'I repent,' you must forgive him.". Also in Colossians 3:12-13 ESV Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And in 1 John 1:9 ESV If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
We know that for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Romans 3:23 . Anyone who has been a party in an unscriptural divorce has sinned. But who can say their sins are not forgiven? No one on this earth can. The Apostle Paul in his letter to the Romans writes: Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God;for it is written, "As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God." So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. Romans 14:4,10-13.
I can only hope and pray that someday I will find a congregation of the Lord's Church that will be able to allow me to show them Christ's Love for them through me and my work for His Kingdom. And I ask your prayers for me and my family as we search for that group of people we can worship with as in John 4:23 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.. Let everything we do in word and deed be pleasing in His sight, and only bind where the Scripture binds.
Brethren, all I ask is for the Blessed Scripture be heeded. We are told in Acts 2:21 AND IT SHALL COME TO PASS THAT WHOEVER CALLS ON THE NAME OF THE LORD SHALL BE SAVED.
God bless each and every one of you with His richest blessings, and blessed be the Name of the Lord.
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